Tiny details that make life meaningful
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我希望他听到这个
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可以去计划一些仪式感的活动
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比如吃饭的时候
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他会买花给我
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但是都没有
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到现在
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我们已经结婚10年了
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都没有
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用它的照片给它做了一个它的
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很可爱的一个头
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然后放在这个蛋糕上面
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对
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但是
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对
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这么认真
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然后还给它唱生日歌
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是的
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对
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那你是
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汪汪汪汪汪汪
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不是
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不是不是
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就是中文的中文的
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对
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有一点
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但是也是很怕麻烦的人
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完了今天的播客结束了
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因为我们三个
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我也不是有仪式感的人
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对
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大家好欢迎来到XiaoguaChinese
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今天是蔚萱和萨萨
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还有Luna
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我们一起聊一聊
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Sasa我们今天要聊什么
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我想和你们聊一个很特别的东西
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叫仪式感
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仪式感是什么
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萨萨仪式感是什么
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你们知道仪式吗
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就是把一件很小的事情
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或者生活里很简单的事情做的很特别
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很不简单
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Luna你的生活
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有没有把很小的事情
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变得很特别的经历
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比如说
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我点外卖
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因为我一个人吃饭
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那我就把我的外卖装在很漂亮的碗里
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然后用很漂亮的筷子
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然后我可能会喝一杯酒
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然后看个电影
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或者听个音乐
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很好很好
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太有仪式感了
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不是我这不是我
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等一下
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对
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我正想问是Luna吗
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不是我
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不是你
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对
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我不可能做这样的事情
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Luna
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你不是
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我不是
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对
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所以Luna不是一个有仪式感的人吗
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我觉得我非常没有仪式感
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我很懒
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我怕麻烦
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我如果把外卖摆出来摆在盘子里
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我还要洗碗
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我觉得太麻烦了
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对对
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我也想到这个
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什么洗碗
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不想洗碗
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对
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所以
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萨萨你是一个有仪式感的人吗
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我可能有一点
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但是也是很怕麻烦的人
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完了今天的播客结束了因为我们三个
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我也不是有仪式感的人
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对蔚萱现在出门都不化妆
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对
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我不化妆
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但是你今天
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你今天为了录播课
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你带了一个小耳环对吗
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对
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这个就是
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只有录播课的时候会戴上耳环
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然后涂口红
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这个是我播客的仪式感
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对
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那你们觉得仪式感重要吗
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可能我们不是有仪式感的人
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但是
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我们会不会希望别人是有仪式感的人
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其实我很希望
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我老公可以是有一点仪式感的人
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听起来他现在一点都没有
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很不浪漫
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我就说听起来
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萨萨说我希望他有一点
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我在想
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就有一点就可以吗
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对
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Luna你的老公好像有仪式感对吗
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对对
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Luna的老公很有仪式感
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对
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好像是
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因为我很没有仪式感
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对
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但是他好像会做一些事情
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是的
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他做了什么
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快说出来
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让我们嫉妒
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很想知道
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我记得我们第一次见面的时候
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他在机场接我
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然后他就买了一束花
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对
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然后他可能自己去做了一个头发
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然后穿的可能比较他觉得比较好看
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好然后来机场接我
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是的然后后来就是我们求婚
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他给我求婚
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然后可能结婚的时候
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有一些比较有仪式感的事情
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对
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是的
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太羡慕了
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他在求婚的时候他不告诉我
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他想给我一个惊喜
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然后后来
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他就带我去
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他的一个朋友新开的一个店
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那个店比较漂亮
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然后他就
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找朋友一起
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装饰的很好看
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好有很多气球有花
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然后这些都不重要
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我觉得最让我感动的是
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最让我感动的是
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他把我们两个在一起的一些经历
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然后他找一个人画了一幅画
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一幅漫画有一些事情
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然后一直到今天
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这个我也录成了一个视频
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我觉得大家应该能看到那个漫画
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对对
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在这
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然后大家一定要去看这个视频
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对然后
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我觉得这个事情
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是我觉得他做的最有仪式感的事情
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对是的
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说说你们的故事
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萨萨为什么要
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为什么
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我不可以听或者看别人求婚的故事
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因为我太羡慕了
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我嫉妒
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我的老公没有
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所以他怎么和你求婚
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没有求婚就没有这件事
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我们也是
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你也是
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好吧
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那怎么答应了
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对
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我和我老公结婚就是很自然的事情
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好像我们都知道我们应该结婚了
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就结婚了
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但是其实我的心里很在意这件事
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因为一个女人一般一辈子结一次婚
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当然也有很多人结两次
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三次
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一般一般
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对
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一般
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对
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所以如果他不求婚就没有机会了
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对
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所以结婚以后我跟他说过很多次
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我觉得很遗憾你没有和我求婚
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我希望他听到这个
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可以去计划一些仪式感的活动
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比如吃饭的时候
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他会买花给我
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但是都没有到现在
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我们已经结婚10年了都没有
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他从来没送过你花吗
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他送过
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但是都是在很奇怪的时间
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不是节日
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也不是我的生日
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有一次
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我在上班
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突然我收到了很大一束花
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而且没有名字
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我就很紧张
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然后我去问我的老公
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那个时候我们还没结婚
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他是我的男朋友
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我问他你给我买花了吗
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他想骗我所以他说没有
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更紧张了
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我说是谁
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谁送我的花
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结果就是他买的
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他想给你惊喜
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还是惊吓
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惊吓吧
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他不知道想做什么
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我觉得萨萨和你老公比起来
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我老公完全没有仪式感
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你老公可能更好一点
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好一点
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对
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我们结婚
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等一下我们结婚多少年了
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让我想一想
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我们这段要留下
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留下留下
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我们结婚七年
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七年七年
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然后他就送我一次花
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对
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什么时候
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而且还是因为
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是因为我跟他说别人都有花
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只有我没有
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然后你可不可以送我一次
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好可怜呀
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对呀然后他给我买了一次买
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然后他送我一次花
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就那一次没有了
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然后我想问你们
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你们有结婚的戒指吗
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有
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你没有吗
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这几天的播客
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我可能要一直哭
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你真的没有吗
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我没有
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你不在意
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对
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因为我是一个没有仪式感的人
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然后我老公好像他也不是
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所以那个结婚的戒指呢
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是这样子
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我之前我自己有
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一个戒指
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然后我说
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那就带着吧
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就是告诉别人我结婚了就可以
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然后呢我们结婚以后
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我说我老公
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你没有戒指
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走我们去买一个
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然后给他买了一个
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给他买了一个戒指
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对
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所以到现在我们都没有结婚的戒指
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那戒指我还是有的
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但是过程没有任何仪式感
275
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我也是没有任何仪式感
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就是结婚的前一天
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他说你明天有空吗
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要不要我们去登记
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我说好
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没了
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然后
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然后就睡觉了没有了
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我和我老公登记的前一天
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不仅没有仪式感
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还生气了
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对
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因为你知道登记的时候需要照片
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红色的照片
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但是我们没有
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他也没有提前计划
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提前准备
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那天我们还在上班
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下班以后我说
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没有照片怎么办
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00:13:06,866 --> 00:13:09,200
他说那就现在去照吧
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00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,900
但是那个时候已经晚上8点了
297
00:13:12,900 --> 00:13:15,200
很多地方都下班了
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我们好不容易找到一个很小的地方
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可以照相
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但是我很生气
301
00:13:23,766 --> 00:13:27,366
因为为什么你不提前准备这件事
302
00:13:28,433 --> 00:13:30,833
所以我就一直笑不出来
303
00:13:30,833 --> 00:13:32,166
很不开心
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00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:37,200
所以我结婚证上的照片就很不开心
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萨萨
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你刚才说结婚登记的前一天很生气
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你现在还记得你为什么生气吗
308
00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:56,633
因为真的找不到可以拍照片的店
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很晚了
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所以这个店很小
311
00:14:01,966 --> 00:14:07,266
这个照相的人看起来很不会拍照
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所以我想完了
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一定很丑
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00:14:13,966 --> 00:14:16,066
这个照片一定很丑
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所以我就笑不出来
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00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:22,400
我老公还在旁边说
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你笑一笑你要笑
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我就很生气
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所以我说别结了
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明天别结婚了
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拍照片的人就说
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别呀不至于不至于
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可以结
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还可以结
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你们不要因为我不结婚
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对
327
00:14:48,433 --> 00:14:50,000
现在很多人结婚
328
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他们会找很专业的摄影师
329
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然后登记的时候
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00:14:55,500 --> 00:14:59,300
每一步都会拍非常漂亮的照片
331
00:15:01,166 --> 00:15:02,633
Luna举手了
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00:15:03,433 --> 00:15:04,233
对
333
00:15:05,266 --> 00:15:06,066
我们...
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Luna
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我觉得今天以后我们不要再做朋友了
336
00:15:11,766 --> 00:15:14,033
你每次说话我都要哭
337
00:15:14,833 --> 00:15:17,033
让我告诉你们
338
00:15:17,233 --> 00:15:18,666
太嫉妒了
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00:15:19,433 --> 00:15:20,100
对
340
00:15:20,100 --> 00:15:20,766
快
341
00:15:20,766 --> 00:15:21,766
Luna快说出来
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00:15:21,766 --> 00:15:23,400
让我们继续嫉妒你
343
00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,100
就是
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我们结婚那天
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00:15:29,033 --> 00:15:32,400
然后他找了一个
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00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,666
很专业的摄影师
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00:15:34,766 --> 00:15:38,200
然后我们去领证结婚证
348
00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,000
他就一直跟我们拍
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00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,000
去登记的时候
350
00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:41,600
对
351
00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:45,300
拍了很多照片
352
00:15:45,300 --> 00:15:48,433
因为我老公的工作
353
00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,066
以前的工作
354
00:15:50,066 --> 00:15:51,800
和婚礼有关
355
00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:54,633
所以他认识一些
356
00:15:54,633 --> 00:15:56,800
很专业的摄影师
357
00:15:57,166 --> 00:16:00,000
然后他就找了一个摄影师
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00:16:00,266 --> 00:16:04,466
和我们一起去拿结婚证
359
00:16:04,633 --> 00:16:08,033
然后他就一直帮我们拍照
360
00:16:08,166 --> 00:16:10,366
拍了很多照片
361
00:16:10,366 --> 00:16:12,700
而且那天是我的生日
362
00:16:13,433 --> 00:16:13,866
对
363
00:16:13,866 --> 00:16:14,766
因为
364
00:16:14,766 --> 00:16:17,600
我也想有一点仪式感
365
00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:21,300
所以在我生日的那天
366
00:16:21,700 --> 00:16:23,966
因为也没有时间了
367
00:16:23,966 --> 00:16:25,433
没有其他的时间
368
00:16:25,433 --> 00:16:27,866
那个时候我的工作也很忙
369
00:16:28,233 --> 00:16:30,233
所以就在这一天
370
00:16:30,233 --> 00:16:32,866
一起去拿结婚证
371
00:16:32,866 --> 00:16:35,500
拍照其实很累
372
00:16:35,500 --> 00:16:37,866
因为拍了很多照片
373
00:16:38,033 --> 00:16:41,500
然后你需要想很多的动作
374
00:16:41,500 --> 00:16:44,900
我记得大概是拍了半天
375
00:16:45,266 --> 00:16:47,666
从早上一直到中午
376
00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,000
太好了
377
00:16:50,366 --> 00:16:51,766
听到这个
378
00:16:51,766 --> 00:16:53,266
我突然想起来
379
00:16:53,700 --> 00:16:57,500
其实我也是有点仪式感的人
380
00:16:57,666 --> 00:17:01,466
因为我们登记的那天
381
00:17:02,166 --> 00:17:04,666
也是我选的日子
382
00:17:04,766 --> 00:17:11,166
因为那一天是我和我老公认识1,000天
383
00:17:11,900 --> 00:17:14,466
这也是一种仪式感吧
384
00:17:14,633 --> 00:17:15,433
当然
385
00:17:15,700 --> 00:17:16,866
一定是
386
00:17:16,866 --> 00:17:19,633
因为我跟我老公
387
00:17:19,633 --> 00:17:22,200
我们都不记得我们什么时候结婚
388
00:17:23,033 --> 00:17:25,600
这是从结婚到现在
389
00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:30,000
我们从来没有过过纪念日
390
00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:32,633
因为我们每年都不记得
391
00:17:33,866 --> 00:17:34,500
好吧
392
00:17:34,500 --> 00:17:38,166
那你们真的很没有仪式感
393
00:17:39,100 --> 00:17:41,466
对呀然后
394
00:17:41,466 --> 00:17:42,066
对
395
00:17:42,066 --> 00:17:43,866
你说到拍照
396
00:17:43,866 --> 00:17:46,200
我想到Luna的婚礼
397
00:17:46,300 --> 00:17:47,000
我记得
398
00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:52,233
我在朋友圈好像看过Luna结婚的照片
399
00:17:52,366 --> 00:17:54,366
很漂亮
400
00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:56,666
对
401
00:17:56,666 --> 00:17:59,966
也是他找的摄影师
402
00:18:00,066 --> 00:18:01,966
然后去拍的
403
00:18:02,300 --> 00:18:03,166
但是
404
00:18:03,166 --> 00:18:05,500
那天下雨
405
00:18:05,666 --> 00:18:07,433
下很大的雨
406
00:18:07,466 --> 00:18:08,833
所以
407
00:18:08,833 --> 00:18:11,466
那天其实拍的照片不多
408
00:18:12,100 --> 00:18:14,066
但是都很漂亮
409
00:18:15,033 --> 00:18:16,033
对
410
00:18:16,033 --> 00:18:21,400
我和你的经历完全不一样
411
00:18:23,566 --> 00:18:29,666
我结婚的照片是我这辈子最丑的照片
412
00:18:29,766 --> 00:18:30,666
为什么
413
00:18:30,666 --> 00:18:35,000
为什么
414
00:18:35,633 --> 00:18:35,900
对
415
00:18:35,900 --> 00:18:38,433
这是我很后悔的地方
416
00:18:38,566 --> 00:18:42,233
也是为什么我现在越来越有仪式感
417
00:18:42,700 --> 00:18:46,066
因为以前太没有仪式感了
418
00:18:46,633 --> 00:18:50,400
就很懒觉得我想少花点钱
419
00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:52,800
或者我想少花点时间
420
00:18:53,700 --> 00:18:57,466
所以我的婚礼很多都是很简单的
421
00:18:57,466 --> 00:19:00,800
比如照相的人
422
00:19:00,900 --> 00:19:06,833
他是我的妈妈的朋友介绍的
423
00:19:07,100 --> 00:19:09,833
我没有问过他怎么样
424
00:19:09,900 --> 00:19:12,066
也没有看过他的照片
425
00:19:13,300 --> 00:19:17,500
所以他真的照得非常丑
426
00:19:17,633 --> 00:19:19,600
非常不好看
427
00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:23,366
而且给我化妆的人
428
00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,866
也是我妈妈的朋友介绍的
429
00:19:27,366 --> 00:19:31,800
我也没有提前去让他试一试
430
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:37,466
所以我那天的脸也很丑
431
00:19:37,900 --> 00:19:40,366
天呐
432
00:19:41,100 --> 00:19:42,600
听起来太可怕了
433
00:19:42,900 --> 00:19:43,433
对
434
00:19:43,433 --> 00:19:49,433
而且我的婚纱也很不合适
435
00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,100
因为
436
00:19:51,100 --> 00:19:54,866
我没有去试过这个婚纱
437
00:19:54,866 --> 00:19:56,866
有点小了
438
00:19:56,866 --> 00:20:02,466
所以有很多遗憾的地方
439
00:20:03,166 --> 00:20:04,700
萨萨
440
00:20:04,700 --> 00:20:07,366
想不想再办一次
441
00:20:07,366 --> 00:20:09,100
我太想了
442
00:20:10,033 --> 00:20:16,366
我想可能结婚15年或者20年的时候
443
00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:19,200
办婚礼太大了
444
00:20:19,366 --> 00:20:20,400
没办法
445
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:24,566
但是可以画一个很漂亮的妆
446
00:20:24,666 --> 00:20:26,866
去试婚纱的地方
447
00:20:27,233 --> 00:20:29,466
穿最漂亮的婚纱
448
00:20:29,633 --> 00:20:31,466
再拍一点照片
449
00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,366
很好很好
450
00:20:33,366 --> 00:20:34,366
听起来很美
451
00:20:34,366 --> 00:20:37,866
然后我要跟你们说的是
452
00:20:38,566 --> 00:20:41,600
我也没有婚礼
453
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:42,633
哭了
454
00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:45,066
对
455
00:20:45,066 --> 00:20:48,366
今天就是一期让我哭的播客
456
00:20:50,366 --> 00:20:51,900
什么都没有
457
00:20:52,233 --> 00:20:54,366
但是不办婚礼
458
00:20:54,366 --> 00:20:57,300
其实是我和我老公我们一起决定的
459
00:20:58,566 --> 00:20:58,900
对
460
00:20:58,900 --> 00:20:59,966
是因为
461
00:20:59,966 --> 00:21:02,566
也是因为我们很懒了
462
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,366
就是觉得很麻烦
463
00:21:05,466 --> 00:21:08,666
因为你要和很多人说我要结婚啦
464
00:21:08,666 --> 00:21:10,000
你们来吧
465
00:21:10,466 --> 00:21:13,500
然后我觉得有很多人其实他不想来
466
00:21:14,100 --> 00:21:16,266
因为他要给我们红包
467
00:21:16,266 --> 00:21:17,700
他不想给我们钱
468
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:18,700
对
469
00:21:18,700 --> 00:21:20,666
然后我觉得
470
00:21:20,700 --> 00:21:22,966
你来可能你不开心
471
00:21:22,966 --> 00:21:25,766
那我不想看到你不开心的样子
472
00:21:26,166 --> 00:21:26,433
对
473
00:21:26,433 --> 00:21:28,166
那我会很生气
474
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:30,633
所以我不要你们来
475
00:21:30,766 --> 00:21:33,433
然后我们就没有
476
00:21:33,433 --> 00:21:36,366
那你现在觉得后悔吗
477
00:21:37,033 --> 00:21:40,300
不后悔但是我跟萨萨的想法一样
478
00:21:40,300 --> 00:21:43,800
就是以后可以有一个很小的
479
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,433
很简单的婚礼
480
00:21:45,666 --> 00:21:47,600
就是只有家人
481
00:21:47,666 --> 00:21:49,633
然后穿很漂亮的衣服
482
00:21:49,700 --> 00:21:51,966
然后化很好看的妆
483
00:21:52,100 --> 00:21:52,333
对
484
00:21:52,333 --> 00:21:54,866
然后有这样的一个仪式
485
00:21:54,866 --> 00:21:56,600
我会觉得很好
486
00:21:57,666 --> 00:21:58,666
萨萨Luna
487
00:21:58,666 --> 00:22:00,266
你们现在生活里面
488
00:22:00,266 --> 00:22:02,900
有没有一些有仪式感的事情
489
00:22:03,633 --> 00:22:04,400
Luna有吗
490
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,966
Luna要好好想一想
491
00:22:06,966 --> 00:22:10,033
我很懒就是太难了
492
00:22:10,033 --> 00:22:10,833
但是
493
00:22:11,100 --> 00:22:12,833
我对我的狗
494
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:14,233
我对我的铃铛
495
00:22:14,900 --> 00:22:15,700
对
496
00:22:15,866 --> 00:22:17,900
因为它不是
497
00:22:17,900 --> 00:22:19,433
它本来不是我的狗
498
00:22:19,866 --> 00:22:20,566
但是呢
499
00:22:20,566 --> 00:22:25,966
它来我们家的时候它不到一岁
500
00:22:25,966 --> 00:22:28,866
然后它一岁生日的时候
501
00:22:29,033 --> 00:22:32,066
我给它做了一个蛋糕
502
00:22:32,266 --> 00:22:34,900
然后我还给它做了一个
503
00:22:35,300 --> 00:22:37,800
用它的照片给它做了一个
504
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,466
它的很可爱的一个一个头
505
00:22:41,466 --> 00:22:43,766
然后放在这个蛋糕上面
506
00:22:43,966 --> 00:22:44,533
对
507
00:22:44,533 --> 00:22:45,700
但是
508
00:22:45,966 --> 00:22:46,233
对
509
00:22:46,233 --> 00:22:47,866
这么认真
510
00:22:47,866 --> 00:22:49,866
然后还给他唱生日歌
511
00:22:49,866 --> 00:22:51,000
是的
512
00:22:51,433 --> 00:22:52,400
对
513
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:53,800
那你是
514
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,300
汪汪汪汪汪汪
515
00:22:56,300 --> 00:22:57,566
不是
516
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:58,033
汪汪
517
00:22:58,033 --> 00:22:58,966
不是不是
518
00:22:58,966 --> 00:23:01,833
就是中文的中文的
519
00:23:01,833 --> 00:23:02,333
对
520
00:23:02,333 --> 00:23:03,400
是的
521
00:23:03,700 --> 00:23:04,700
然后我和我的爸爸妈妈
522
00:23:04,766 --> 00:23:05,633
不是狗语的
523
00:23:06,300 --> 00:23:07,966
不是
524
00:23:09,033 --> 00:23:11,466
然后我们一起给它唱然
525
00:23:11,466 --> 00:23:13,200
后它很小
526
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:16,233
它就坐在蛋糕的旁边
527
00:23:16,233 --> 00:23:18,200
然后看着我们
528
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,033
然后最后这个蛋糕没有吃完
529
00:23:21,700 --> 00:23:22,766
然后坏了
530
00:23:22,766 --> 00:23:24,266
因为它太小了
531
00:23:24,433 --> 00:23:25,100
这个蛋糕
532
00:23:25,100 --> 00:23:26,300
它没有吃完
533
00:23:26,766 --> 00:23:26,933
对
534
00:23:26,933 --> 00:23:27,300
然后
535
00:23:27,300 --> 00:23:28,366
所以最后
536
00:23:29,166 --> 00:23:30,233
那是第一次
537
00:23:30,233 --> 00:23:31,700
也是最后一次
538
00:23:31,833 --> 00:23:33,000
没有了
539
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:33,833
再也没有了
540
00:23:33,833 --> 00:23:36,100
没了
541
00:23:36,100 --> 00:23:37,233
对
542
00:23:37,433 --> 00:23:38,166
萨萨呢
543
00:23:38,166 --> 00:23:38,700
萨萨
544
00:23:38,833 --> 00:23:40,300
做什么有仪式感的事情
545
00:23:40,300 --> 00:23:44,200
因为我现在有很多后悔的事情
546
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:48,433
所以我想要变成一个有仪式感的人
547
00:23:48,566 --> 00:23:52,200
至少对我的儿子
548
00:23:52,766 --> 00:23:57,233
我希望他有很多很好的回忆
549
00:23:58,266 --> 00:23:59,666
对所以
550
00:23:59,700 --> 00:24:02,033
他100天的时候
551
00:24:02,266 --> 00:24:03,700
中国
552
00:24:03,700 --> 00:24:06,300
100天是一个很重要的日子
553
00:24:06,366 --> 00:24:09,066
还有他一岁的时候
554
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:10,633
两岁的时候
555
00:24:10,666 --> 00:24:12,633
他的生日
556
00:24:12,700 --> 00:24:16,300
我都把家里做的很漂亮
557
00:24:16,300 --> 00:24:18,900
给他买了很好看的衣服
558
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:19,266
然后
559
00:24:19,266 --> 00:24:23,400
还请了照相的人过来给我们录视频
560
00:24:23,466 --> 00:24:25,200
照照片
561
00:24:25,566 --> 00:24:27,500
还带他去照相馆
562
00:24:27,500 --> 00:24:30,400
照了很漂亮很可爱的照片
563
00:24:31,433 --> 00:24:33,800
我跟萨萨很像
564
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:34,400
就是
565
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:38,366
可能我自己没有很多有仪式感的事情
566
00:24:38,633 --> 00:24:40,766
但是到我女儿
567
00:24:40,766 --> 00:24:43,633
我也是她过生日
568
00:24:43,633 --> 00:24:46,500
然后会给她买很好看的蛋糕
569
00:24:46,633 --> 00:24:50,266
然后会把家里我会装饰一下
570
00:24:50,266 --> 00:24:51,633
弄得很漂亮
571
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,666
然后
572
00:24:53,666 --> 00:24:56,400
因为我觉得对她来说
573
00:24:56,466 --> 00:24:58,566
可能是很好的回忆
574
00:24:58,566 --> 00:24:59,433
她可以
575
00:24:59,433 --> 00:25:01,233
长大以后她可以看
576
00:25:01,233 --> 00:25:04,233
这个是我一岁生日的时候
577
00:25:04,233 --> 00:25:06,833
这个是我两岁生日的时候
578
00:25:06,833 --> 00:25:07,100
对
579
00:25:07,166 --> 00:25:10,233
所以如果以后她遇到一个男人
580
00:25:10,233 --> 00:25:10,966
这个男人说
581
00:25:10,966 --> 00:25:12,433
我送给你花
582
00:25:12,433 --> 00:25:14,166
我送给你蛋糕
583
00:25:14,233 --> 00:25:16,000
她不会因为这些原因
584
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:17,433
和这个男人走
585
00:25:17,433 --> 00:25:17,666
对
586
00:25:17,766 --> 00:25:18,600
非常好
587
00:25:18,633 --> 00:25:21,366
最后一个问题
588
00:25:21,366 --> 00:25:23,800
我想问Luna和萨萨
589
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,766
最近你们的生活里
590
00:25:25,766 --> 00:25:28,300
有没有很想做一件事情
591
00:25:28,466 --> 00:25:30,800
让你的生活更有意思
592
00:25:30,966 --> 00:25:32,900
或者更有仪式感
593
00:25:32,900 --> 00:25:34,700
我有一个
594
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,833
不算一件事
595
00:25:36,833 --> 00:25:44,066
情但是我很想以后多拍一点照片
596
00:25:44,066 --> 00:25:46,033
多录一点视频
597
00:25:46,266 --> 00:25:48,466
记录我的生活
598
00:25:48,900 --> 00:25:51,900
这样等我老了我可以看
599
00:25:51,900 --> 00:25:54,433
我30岁的时候是这样的
600
00:25:54,433 --> 00:25:56,766
40岁的时候是这样的
601
00:25:57,166 --> 00:25:57,833
太好了
602
00:25:57,833 --> 00:25:59,133
棒棒棒
603
00:25:59,133 --> 00:25:59,566
好
604
00:25:59,833 --> 00:26:01,066
那Luna呢
605
00:26:01,266 --> 00:26:02,633
我没有
606
00:26:02,633 --> 00:26:03,566
最近
607
00:26:03,966 --> 00:26:08,866
我觉得我可能一直是这样做的
608
00:26:09,033 --> 00:26:11,366
这是我每天早上起床
609
00:26:11,366 --> 00:26:12,300
我要上课
610
00:26:12,466 --> 00:26:13,666
那我上课以前
611
00:26:13,666 --> 00:26:17,200
我一定要给自己点一杯咖啡
612
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,866
我要选一个我最喜欢的咖啡
613
00:26:20,100 --> 00:26:21,900
好然后
614
00:26:21,900 --> 00:26:23,700
我出门以前
615
00:26:23,866 --> 00:26:26,100
我一定要选
616
00:26:26,100 --> 00:26:28,966
我今天穿什么好看的衣服
617
00:26:29,166 --> 00:26:30,166
我要搭配
618
00:26:30,166 --> 00:26:32,433
然后我出门
619
00:26:32,433 --> 00:26:33,366
是的
620
00:26:34,033 --> 00:26:34,666
对
621
00:26:34,666 --> 00:26:36,866
我有一个很不好的习惯
622
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:41,233
就是晚上睡觉的时候我很喜欢看手机
623
00:26:41,766 --> 00:26:44,500
因为白天我要上课
624
00:26:44,500 --> 00:26:45,800
然后我工作
625
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,700
所以没有很多时间玩手机
626
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,400
然后呢晚上的时候
627
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,000
我女儿她又跟我玩
628
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,666
所以我只能就是在她睡觉以后
629
00:26:56,466 --> 00:26:57,600
我看手机
630
00:26:57,766 --> 00:26:59,400
然后我就越看越有意思
631
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:00,500
越看越有意思
632
00:27:00,500 --> 00:27:02,366
我就很晚才能睡觉
633
00:27:03,033 --> 00:27:05,100
所以这个是我要改的
634
00:27:05,100 --> 00:27:07,200
一个很坏的习惯
635
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,866
就是晚上睡觉以前我会拿出手机
636
00:27:10,866 --> 00:27:13,266
我说现在我要睡觉了
637
00:27:13,833 --> 00:27:15,200
我不要玩手机
638
00:27:15,466 --> 00:27:18,000
然后我把它放到一边去
639
00:27:18,433 --> 00:27:21,666
这个是我要做的事情
640
00:27:21,766 --> 00:27:23,266
你们觉得怎么样
641
00:27:23,266 --> 00:27:24,500
睡前仪式
642
00:27:27,833 --> 00:27:28,033
对
643
00:27:28,033 --> 00:27:29,866
这个是我的睡前仪式
644
00:27:29,866 --> 00:27:31,266
我会努力的
645
00:27:31,566 --> 00:27:32,800
但是
646
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:34,033
我悄悄和你们说
647
00:27:34,033 --> 00:27:35,500
我觉得有一点难
648
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:36,633
我懂你
649
00:27:36,633 --> 00:27:40,666
我同意我同意
650
00:27:40,666 --> 00:27:42,033
对对
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